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Welcome to Reflections of Life Photography's blog. We are on-location and natural light photographers serving the Henderson and Smith County, Texas area, although we are willing to travel to surrounding areas for sessions. We photograph seniors, families, engagements, maternity, babies, and special occasions/events (including the occasional wedding). Visit our main website for our portfolio and contact info. We look forward to hearing from you.

The girl behind the camera (& curtain) at ROLP (and pictured to the right) is Christina; Robby's the other half hiding behind the scenes! This part of our site is where we (rather I, being Christina, as Robby is less chatty than me) post personal photos, as well as session images, newsletters, blog specials, and some various ramblings and musings. Please bookmark us, or if you're a RSS user, our feed is located here--or just plug our web address into Google Reader or any other feed reader.

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and God cried…

There’s many kinds of heartbreak. And while I haven’t suffered them all, I’ve twice suffered the kind that no matter what I do, I can’t take away the pain or stop the suffering. Once I couldn’t save them from enduring the battle they didn’t deserve.

Six years ago in June, I lost my beloved Wilbur…

the wills Wilbur

While it hurt deeply to lose my canine companion of twelve years, my brother’s ‘twin’ because they were the exact same age, I could accept his death as a part of growing old, body failing the mind and spirit that were still young at heart. It didn’t make the pain any less, but I could accept losing my best friend and the one male I knew would always be loyal to me, even though he was adopted for my little brother. He was a wonderful judge of character, knew what guys I didn’t dare need to leave home with, and was there to lick the tears off my face and lean against me when I needed it.

sweets whatcha doin? you're taking my photo again...
i am kitty, hear me roar! make my day I only look innocent
I have an attitude move it or lose it dreamland
silly kitty Sweets

This weekend, his feline best friend and porch buddy on rainy days, Sweet Pea, aka Sweets, the Sweetness, my lil Rockstar, Sweet Treats, the Dutchess, was attacked by two neighborhood dog hoodlums out looking for trouble on Saturday night. Despite my two dogs trying their best to break out of their pens to save her and my father rescuing her, driving me and her to the vet, and my mother staying with her all day today, even performing CPR on her twice so I could make it home after work to tell her goodbye, she joined him late this evening during the hurdle semis (I only note this because I was telling her about the Swedish runner taking a tumble when she took her last breaths). And, like the last time when I discovered my beloved Wilbur gone, when I walked out to take her to where my dad was digging her burial place by her best canine friend’s, I cried, my throat burned, and as he covered her up, I sobbed. I sobbed as tried to forget the pain with the heat of a hot bubble bath to no avail.

Many will read this and say, “She’s just a cat.” No, she wasn’t. I rescued her when she was a kitten, abandoned on a hot asphalt with a skinned up head twelve years ago this summer. I watched her as she made her bed a flower pot. I took care of her during kidney problems. I hurt and prayed as I watched her suffer the effects of a poisonous mushroom seven years ago and I cheered her on as she fought back to survive, despite temporary blindness, deafness, and the start of organ failure. I watched her battle tapeworms a couple years ago. All the meanwhile, my rough tough walking tomboy of a girl feline won over my dog loving heart. While my other cat (rescued a year earlier) may be the ‘prettier’ one, the princess, Sweets was my lil feline dutchess. When she followed me to the car in the mornings, my days were good. When she greeted me with a meow and a headrub when I got home, any bad day was erased. And her kisses cheered me up as much as Wilbur’s did. And she knew how to give love (I taught her the sign in ASL, any time she was in the window, she’d give me love when she saw me coming). She still had several lives and several years in her. And they were robbed from her by two dogs an owner that does not bother to control and tame them. She’s not the first victim in the area from what we’ve discovered. And I’m afraid she won’t be the last until dog karma kicks in for those two.

Rest in Peace Sweets. I’m so sorry you had to suffer so much during your last two days on earth. You fought so hard–and I’ll miss you so much. Give the Wilburnator one of your headrubs for me when you see him…

if they only knew

Wilbur (1988 - 2002) & Sweets (1996 - 2008)

Reminder…

Don’t forget the Sweet Summer Faces Contest is accepting entries until August 31, 2008 at midnight…

Also, I am closing registration/booking for all Timesaver Sessions at 10 pm on the Monday before the session date. So…if you were planning on getting in on the remaining session times for Saturday, August 23rd, contact me immediately. I’m closing at that time in order to allow you time to send/submit payment via mail or online prior to Friday evening. This Monday deadline applies to each of the upcoming Timesaver Session dates.

Email me all entries / session inquires at rolphotography [at] gmail [dot] com!

Goodbyes and Attacks…

That’s two of the words to sum up the weekend…

Priceless

This lil guy headed for greener pastures on Friday (along with all the other calves my parents own). I tried unsuccessfully to convince them to keep him, especially after the lil guy decided to give my shoes some lovin’ last week (sorry, pictures not available as I couldn’t focus the camera to my feet quick enough!). Hopefully whoever purchased him at the auction will realize what a sweet lil guy they have and will treat him right.

Sweets

And late this evening, my Sweets was out on the porch (she’s an outdoor kitty) when two dogs came up and attacked her. She’s had a rough life, having been dumped out as a kitten (we rescued her), then she ate a poisonous mushroom several years ago, which nearly killed her. When rescued from the clutches of the two dogs, she was raspy sounding and based on where the dogs appeared to have sunk their teeth in, I was afraid she was gonna be cut short of nine lives. A emergency visit to the vet, an xray, and some pain meds determined no broken bones/ribs, punctures to the diagphram (sp), lungs, or other major organs, but one very shook-up kitty who probably thought her life was over. She’s currently down for the count due to the pain meds, but any extra prayers you can send this way would be very much appreciated. She’s my lil Timex baby–takes a lickin’ and keeps on a tickin’.

Re-launched…

It’s taken me awhile, but my photoblog is back up and running…complete with a new name. Previously it was Reflections of Life, which later became my business name. I wanted to separate my personal images from client images, so after lots of debate, I have gone with What She Sees. Thanks so much to Goofy Girl for tweaking the logo of the layout for me a couple months ago. If you’re looking for a custom blog design, she’s the one I highly recommend!

Summer Daised

Summer Dazed

Killer headache = only a photo entry today…taken at the East Texas Arboretum in Athens

Advice…please!

Dear Photography World (and everyone else in the internetwebosphere)…

Sometime next year — May probably, could change to late June/early July possibly — plans are being made for a two week nerve-wracking trip with my immediately family by SUV expedition to the great northwestern region of the US and possible a province or two of Canada. Possibly also involving some walking/hiking in some national parks as well.

Meanwhile, while all the planning is still underway, there’s one little minor detail I am in need of assistance in terms of advice…

A camera backpack.

Oh, I am a bag/tote collecting addict–I have all sorts of totes, messenger bags, and a trusty ole’ Jansport that saw me through part of undergrad and grad school–but I no longer have a camera bag. You know, the kind with compartments that protects your gear.

I had a Crumpler I scoured for a few months on eBay for, but as much as I loved him, he wasn’t the right fit for a slightly petite girl (5′4″) like myself. Sightly petite with a curvy butt didn’t work with that bag–when it wasn’t getting in my way, it was making me look like I had a much bigger butt. I only know this because my oh so wonderful assistant, I mean, not so little brother, verbalized it on more than one occasion.

So off it went to a new home on the east coast a few months back…

I currently use a customized messenger bag out on shoots and area photo excursions that doubles for a laptop bag on occasion, but I’m pretty certain when I’m lugging the following gear around for two weeks, I will return needing my PCP to refer me to a good chiropractor (that is, if I don’t have to borrow my best friend’s while I’m in the Great Falls area…). Anyway, the equipment (at present):

Canon 40D body
Canon 30D body
Canon 70-200mm f/4L lens
Canon 28-105mm lens
Canon 85 mm lens
Canon 50 mm lens
Sigma flash (maybe…rarely use it…)
Gary Fong Lightsphere diffuser (…if I bring the flash)
two backup batteries
at least four extra CF cards (4 GB each)
tripod and monopod
lens cleaning cloths
chargers and assorted accessories I’m forgetting

Plus…
Canon PowerShot 8.0MP Digital ELPH Camera
Acer Aspire laptop (leaving the chill pad at home…)
WD My Passport Essential 320 GB HD
USB mouse (sorry, no matter how much I try, I don’t like using the touchpad to edit photos or surf the web) + mousepad

I don’t care if the tripod or monopod are inside the backpack, as I can loop the strap on my monopod through the strap of the tripod case and attach them to the backpack the few times I’d actually take them out to use…but I do want the rest of the gear inside the backpack. Plus, if there’s a bit of room left to cram in an extra outfit (for whenever I fly in the future, as I don’t want to be without at least one change of clothing if my checked bags are ever lost! It can always serve as extra padding for the gear!)

Oh, and the most important part, my budget. I’d like to stay at or under $100…but I’m referring to roughly $4,300 worth of gear/electronics here–that’s what I paid for it all, not what it would cost to replace. So, I’m willing to go upwards of $150 plus shipping to get a decent bag to haul it around in safely.

And lastly…I don’t want it to scream ‘loads of expensive camera equipment inside’ when I don’t have the tripod/monopod dangling from it…

For the record, I don’t want a messenger-style bag, have plenty of those already. Plus, I plan to later on buy a Shootsac for on-the-go purposes!

Suggestions…please :) Muchas gracias in advance!

Lil’ Cuties

Lil cuties

Krystle and her two lil’ mini me’s were gracious enough to meet me at the East Texas Arboretum this morning to help me out with a contest submission (sorry, I’m not making it public until the results are distributed so no one steals my ideas)…but this is one I thought was worth sharing in the meantime.

Speaking of the East Texas Arboretum, I hope to be able to announce it as the location of the September Timesaver Session for Athens in the next day or two–gotta make some arrangements first.

Go USA

Go USA!

Favorite moments of the Opening Ceremonies…and a few interesting facts

Hearing the story behind the US flagbearer, Lopez Lomond…

Finding out Zimbabwe’s dictator (one of the 10 worst in the world) was told in Hong Kong it was “best” if he turned around and went home!

Kirbati…23 hour time difference in one country because of its location in comparison to its location on the International Date Line! (well, until they adjusted it!)

How young Botswana’s flagbearer looked…a swimmer I’d guess is 14!

Finding out that my absolute favorite basketball player, Dirk Nowitzki, is Germany’s flagbearer and that Mavs fans helped him receive the honor! Now, my dear German pals, if you don’t know who my Dirk is, I’ll have to come over and wring your necks!

The little boy walking in with Yao Ming–nine years old but looked like a toddler upside Yao! He’s an earthquake survivor who freed himself and a couple classmates–talk about a hero!

And, at the very end, the dedication to Jim McKay, who’ll be much much missed from this Games when it comes to the commentary.

Note: The above image was ‘created’ at the start of the Torino Games two years ago with a pack and a half of Hershey Kissables in case you’re curious! Yeah, I sometimes have too much free time on my hands!

FTS Five Words (continued)…

The other day I listed the five words I felt described me best and explained why I chose that word. While I was writing them up, I also emailed several individuals who’ve known me over the past 10-15 years and asked them for the five words they’d use to describe me, as sometimes people want to know what others think of someone, not what that someone thinks of themself. 

So…I present to you the responses of three of my closest friends in the order I received them:

Five words they used to describe me-Christina…

Friend #1: Energetic, determined, creative, intelligent, persistent

Friend #2: Intelligent, focused, generous, self-assured, loyal

Friend #3: Honest, dependable, caring, genuine, strong

Now, dear visitors, I ask of you the same question, only, I want to know what five words you’d use to describe yourself. Feel free to leave them in the comments section or ping back an entry on your own site with them!

PS…as of 6:30 pm CST this evening until the ending of the Closing Ceremonies of the 2008 Beijing Summer Olympic Games, I may not be as fast at responding  as I have this oh so small obsession with the olympics in general. That and a computer that apparently needs more RAM, memory, or something…

Cross-posted at my personal blog

Inspiration and Goals

If you’ve ever been around me when I’m out photographing–whether a session or just for fun–you’ll soon notice I start taking photos of ‘random’ things. Well, to you they may seem random, but to me, something about the subject jumps out at me as not only a great photo, but an idea for something else.

The other night I decided to take a walk through my father’s farm equipment and walked away with over 150 images–mostly detail shots of logos, signs, and other details. He saw me editing them later and wanted to know why I didn’t take full shots of his pride and joy’s (his two Massey Fergusons). Granted, I did take a ‘full view’ shot of the two of them parked side by side from behind, but I was seeking inspiration more than anything. And I was trying out some techniques and ideas with two of my newest playtoys –the 40D and my 85mm lens.

I’ll share those images later on–as I’m also considering selling some of them also–but here’s one shot I took when I realized just where I get my obsession with all things British…

For the Love of All Things British

I also find inspiration in things I can’t seem to capture–those blink or miss moments. Yesterday, on my way home, I was coming up to this sharp curve that also involves a railroad crossing. Well about fifty yards before it, suddenly this large blob and three little blobs came across the roadway. It was either hit the brakes or grab my camera out of my purse. Wanna guess what the blobs were? Potbellied pigs–a momma and three babies. By the time I could react to grab the camera, they’d went under a fence and were gone. Oh, that would have been a great photograph. Think the Beatles at Abbey Road, but with potbellied pigs…

Another place I’m finding inspiration again is in magazines. I have this stack that’s a good eighteen inches tall I need to sit down and read–those are the ones I subscribe to! While I look to my photography magazines as both education and inspiration and my travel ones to fill the wonderlust, I rarely look at fashion magazines unless I get the occasional free subscription. So yesterday, as I stopped in Walgreens to pick up a card, I passed a magazine rack with Vanity Fair on it–a magazine I have only purchased twice ever (once for a story/photospread about all the royals in Europe, the other when the cover featured Reese Witherspoon, one of my favorite actresses). The cover jumped out at me, so I got it. With an idea in mind, I then walked over to the magazine ‘aisle’ and skimmmed the rest of the selection. Of all the options there, Cosmo Girl was the only other one that ‘jumped’ out at me. So I picked up a copy of it too and headed to the register. Last night as I flipped through them, I restrained myself from tearing the pages out of both that inspired me or gave me an idea. I plan to sit back down and take photos of those pages–as I’ll probably pass the magazines on to someone who’ll actually read them once I’m done.

As for the goals, over on my personal site, I recently posted 101 Things in 1001 Days I hope to accomplish. Some of them are pretty lofty, but it gives me something to work towards. There’s a mix of personal, travel, business, and photography-related things/items to accomplish. Some are pretty simple–take a self portrait each month–while others–encourage clients to try something different or spontaneous for part of their photo sessions–will be a tad more difficult. Some examples of what I mean here, here, anything here or here, here. Or even giving in to a non-traditional location–everyone uses two particular parks in Tyler, but what about the downtown areas or either TJC or UT-Tyler’s campuses? There’s a lot of spectacular backdrops around all three if you look…and the images won’t be ‘just like everyone else’s’!

One of my goals not listed on the list is to discover a style that is me rather than following trends or emulating the style of the photographers I admire or am inspired by. I’d love to find clients who are willing to try something other than a traditional/formal pose during a portrait session and let me document them as they are, how they interact with each other, their real personality that comes out when they’re able to be themselves. Last fall, there was one couple I photographed that I truly enjoyed, probably because it was the one session that made me want to laugh so much simply because they ‘let go’ and were themselves in front of the camera.

So…if you’re up for something out of the ordinary and want a session that reflects the ‘real you’…I’m more than willing to photograph it (as long as its not underwater)! Or if you see something on there tied to photography you’d like to help or motivate me to accomplish, again, leave me a comment or send me an email. I’m looking to grow as a photographer and in order to do that, sometimes I need a little assistance on the part of my clients!

AJAXed with AWP